It’s only 5 Reasons.  It’s not All Of The Reasons.  And it might not be the Main Reasons.  It is just 5 Reasons I Love To Live In Russia.

But before we start this Festival of Positivity, I would like to say, “Russia, you should be ashamed of yourself!”

I love Russia for weekend dancing in the park to the sound of a live brass band.

Nearly invariably, when I meet a Russian Person for the first time, they ask, “Why do you live in Russia?”  This question is often fraught with deep suspicion that there could be no pure motivation for an American to live in Russia.

I have never heard an American, for example, in America, ask an immigrant, “Why have you come to America?”   It is commonly understood, among most Americans, that living in America is great, so it makes perfect sense for someone to immigrate to my great homeland.

Also, if I might add, and I might because this is my blog, immigrating to a new land doesn’t automatically mean that the former land was bad.  I love America!  But that’s for a different blog on a different day.

I love Russia for the beauty of the forests and onion domes on Orthodox church cathedrals.

So, listen my Russian friends, there is plenty to love about Russia.  And you shouldn’t find it so strange that there are foreigners who love your nation.

It is because of the Repeating Question of Why Live In Russia that I am inspired to write 5 Reasons I Love To Live In Russia.

Here they are:

1)  Every Day Is A Surprise  I remember one time I had to pick up my dear mother at an airport, In Russia.  It was 4:30 a.m. and I didn’t see that someone had placed their luggage behind my car.  I ran over said luggage, stopped, got out of the car, and began to inspect the damage.  I quickly became acquainted with the owner of said luggage.  He was both ever so slightly inebriated and also experiencing some annoyance by the fact that I had Run Over His Luggage, In Russia.

A lively conversation ensued, and my dear mother who had Just Arrived In Russia watched from inside the car.

It turned out that the luggage that I had ever so recently backed over contained a special skiing suit that would magically inflate if the skier in question ever hit a hard object.  Like A Tree.  Or A Rock.

The owner of the luggage which I had just run over, that contained a special skiing suit, said he wanted to call the police.  I called his bluff and said, “Okay, let’s go!”

He backed off and began complaining about how I had ruined his Special Skiing Suit.  I explained to him that there was nothing special about his skiing suit, because it was clearly broken.  I had backed over it, and it had remained uninflated.  Furthermore, how was it my fault that he had set his luggage directly behind my car where it would not be visible to me?

Long story short, a few minutes later, The Luggage Owner and I were hugging, and soon afte,r my mother and I were on our way.  I was surprised to run over a Special Skiing Suit, and I was surprised that this interaction did not end up in fisticuffs.  If you know what I mean.  I was surprised that picking up my mother at the airport included Hugging A Russian Man.

The only way I could explain this situation to my mother was, “It is Russia”.   For most surprises, In Russia, that explanation will need to be enough.  And that is the #1 Reason I Love To Live In Russia.

I love Russia for the “golden hands” of the master woodcarver.

2) If There Is A Smile, It Is Probably Authentic  Naturally the exceptions to this include those in the theatrical industry and clerks that work on commission.

If a Russian is not smiling, maybe that means that he or she is not happy.  Write that down.  However, if they are smiling, it will certainly brighten up your day, because it is real.  One of my favorite personal challenges is making Russian Middle Aged Women who Sell Tickets at Train Stations smile.  At first, they won’t smile.  Why should they?  You are just another brick in the wall, another passenger in an endless queue.

However, if you say, “Hello!” and stand there with your sloppy foreign grin on your face, you might get a crack of a smile, and they will be more forgiving of your accent and endless questions about train schedules.

So, if a Russian is not smiling at me, perhaps they are not happy to see me.  This takes out loads of guesswork in relationships.  If you know what I mean.

3) Relationship Over Business  I met with a friend in America about a year ago.  We sat there talking about life and suddenly he asked, “What did you want to meet about?”.  I was shocked and quickly realized my cultural error.  I had put Relationship Over Business.  In Russia, I love the fact that when there is business to do, co-workers and potential partners will lead me on a seemingly endless gauntlet of mysterious relationship building exercises.  These include barbecue, random conversation, and of course, most importantly, the banya.

And it makes sense, and I’ve learned to just go along for the ride.  Relationship builds trust, and with trust, the business will be more effective.

I love Russia for the humor and ingenuinity of turning a Zhiguli into a makeshift convertible.

4) “NO!” means “Let’s Talk Some More!”  It has been said by folks who are more clever than this blogger that Russians are like nuts: hard on the outside, but soft on the inside.  These same folks maintain that Americans are like cherries:  soft on the outside, but…

I love it when a Russian Person tells me “NO!”.  Don’t argue with them, silly foreign person.  Your attempts to fight for your rights will go unheeded.  Instead, stay relaxed and talk about the weather, talk about your childhood, talk about everything in the world except what they just refused you about, sit in silence staring at your shoelaces.  Eventually, the Russian Person will provide you with some clues about how they can indeed help you.

The word “NO!”, In Russian, is the code word for the start of an Ancient Dance Of Relational Negotiations.  Enjoy.

I love Russia for this man who rolled up his pants to go skiing.

5) The Traffic Etiquette.  Moscow was recently rated#1 for the worst traffic in the world.  Traffic isn’t my favorite thing.  The worst traffic jam that I was in lasted 6.5 hours.  There are many stories of worse traffic.

Usually, foreigners are surprised by the, shall I say, gung-ho assertive nature of Russian drivers.  However, there is a flip side.  It is extremely rare for other drivers to not allow me to switch lanes in front of them.  Clearly, you must be assertive in your lane switching, but the other driver will understand your plight, and the automobile horn is used only in the most extreme of circumstances.  There is a sense of camraderie in the traffic, and if you allow someone to cut in front of you they will almost always send you a “Thank you!” with a few flashes of their hazard lights.  In fact, I have found in my experience in various cities, the larger the city, the more forgiving the drivers are.

And I love Russia for shashlik followed by a steaming banya.

Do you have at least 1 Reason You Love To Live In Russia?  Comment below!

 

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6 thoughts on “5 Reasons I Love To Live In Russia

  1. Andy thank you so much for creating this blog! I wished that I found your blog much earlier, because every single posts you wrote resonated so much with the experience I have staying here in Moscow! Also, I like the sense of humour you incorporare into your blog posts, it’s almost magical to read on a blog featuring Russia written by an American whom sounded just like a native Russian. Keep writing and I can’t wait to read your next blog post! Thanks a bunch, Andy! 🙂

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